I Want That Star

| Wednesday, March 21, 2007

just back from the funeral after helping out. seriously, i feel like im the grandkid lor.. and mummiee would be the daughter.
WHY?! cos his own son is SLACKING. slackkkkkkkkerrr :/

its like ppl come, i bring them to seats then serve and clear, mummiee is incharge of collecting "condolences money" while daddee is refilling all the nuts, sweets and drinks.

obviously the job is done by outsiders instead of their own ppl. since uncle thomas is old, of cos his direct siblings are old too, so u cant expect them to help out.
much of the ppl that came during the afternoon are quite elderly.
the middle-age ppl come during the night after work to pay their respects.

auntie julie is like.. probably too sad to do anything or she dunnoe how to do anything. sigh. i dun blame her.

i feel so bad complaining but i have to get it off my chest.
like how i told uncle patrick, the way me and mummiee sits at the table with the phone, nuts, sweets, drinks and paperwork, it would seem that im the grandkid :/
ya.. i would like to be his grandkid if i can, when he is alive.

i went at 1pm and bought 20packs of rice for them.
and then the son came at 2pm or so. sat there with his wife and do some money stuff.
until 4-5pm like that, they say they have to fetch their son kenneth from the Army. seriously.. u would abandon us and ure dad's funeral to fetch ure son from the army. so i got the info that his son just finished the 16weeks training..
and he was telling me that all those things like at first he cannot run but now he can. even chin up also can do 1. yadayada :/

tell me for wattttt..... if u can help us out, do so..
oh ya, he came back about 4hours later at 8pm when it was the peak period. so as u all noe, funerals have prayers and a whole bunch of catholic pals were all standing infront of uncle thomas and praying, he and his wife just came and sat behind and ate dinner. probably he didnt noe how powerful is funeral prayers. the more ppl that come to pay their respects and pray for u, the more it means that more ppl are grateful for all the things that u have done. of cos it shows to the person up there that many ppl respect him.
just like how the Pope died and tons of ppl from all over the crust of Earth came.

sigh again, he could have joined us in the prayer u noe.. at least stand there even if u hate praying to show some support la :/:/

then the peak period arrived where the jobby ppl finished work and came. batch and batch. he just sat with his wife and frens in 1 corner table near the one that mummiee is sitting. mummiee even told me that though she didnt see it, she can feel both husband and wife looking at her cos she was handling with the condolences money :/:/ seh sian leh :/ they are supposed to do it themselves cos ppl's tongue will move if anything goes short

if im just a normal church pal of uncle thomas and i go visit him, i would have thought the guy and his wife sitting there are just another fren of his. who noes his son!? didnt even go and welcome ppl to sit or thank ppl for attending the funeral. and daddee is doing that for him.

uncle thomas has another daughter but she is married to vancouver and have a family there, so she will only reach on friday.

holy moo-ers, its only day 1.

at the very least, he did say "thanks for all the help" to me before i took a ride on uncle joseph's car home, while daddee and mummiee still attending to the crowd.

i.. dunnoe wat to say is when he said,

"hey.. thanks for all ure help today. where are u going? are u going to stayover tonight?"
"no problem.. i came for uncle thomas. no la.. tired cannot stay overnight. i've got things to attend to at home"
then i followed uncle joseph

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